Who cares?

Is there any certain standards we have to follow when being in a relationship? Are there rules set that should guide one when the time has come? Should it conform with what should be "accepted by public"? Or should family dictate it for you? Or should friends always have to be part of one's decision in taking a YES or NO?

Relationship...meaning You & Me. I am definitely referring to a relationship between a man and a woman. Relationship as in being LOVERs or being soon-to-be-Lovers.

Now the question is, why oftentimes we are afraid of putting IT onto the next level? Why most of the times, we get intimidated of what OTHERS might say or what OTHERS might think? Family matters and so are Friends. Maybe what they say will give a damn intensity to our decision of what type of relationship we want to have. But still, it will boil down to between YOU and ME. Not THEY, THEM, WE (in general sense of all people you know).

Yes, I completely understand that we always believe or better say, we always wanted to have a fairytale-like romance. That boy meets girl...blah blah blah and they live happily ever after. But these are in books. Hello???!!!! In fairtytale books. We aint no princessess or princes. There aint no fairy that will help us get rid of the witch who wants to screw our lovelife. There aint no author who can write about chapters of what should be on the pages of our life. The author is simply yourselves. And the editor?...maybe the almighty is.

Anyways, to be or not to be in a relationship is always a choice. And it is always someone's right to have a one. Now to make it right, is up to us. It should be YOU and ME that will allways matter. The US, that should make it right no matter what people say. Even family and closest friends. Who cares? 'Cors they will surely care...but until only to a certain point. The choice and happiness still lie at your very own hands. It's up to you which choice to take and what type of happiness to pursue.

I can say, Relationship is simply not simple.